I stumbled across a blog post written by a gay man who was once married to a woman. His ex-wife started a website for the straight spouses of mixed-orientation marriages (you can read more about that in the Salt Lake Tribune). According to the author of the original blog post, commentaries at the Salt Lake Tribune included statements like this:
“If he can have sex with [get aroused by] a woman, he’s bisexual”
The author explains why that is not the case and why he identifies as gay and not bisexual. Read his post and share your thoughts.